QUESTIONS for Further Exploration

The FEELING is everything. It is the feeling that you crave, not the substance or stuff that you think will give you the feeling. That is why you can have success that's devoid of satisfaction: it might look on paper like what "should" make you happy but, it isn't what your soul has been asking for. Focus on the feeling and train your vibration to the feeling by envisioning yourself when you last felt that feeling. Go back to your read desired feeling list again. This is what you are aiming for as your desired vibration and your vibration is entirely up to you. List your desired feelings from week one and/or any you wish to add or change. Spend time each day basking in and cultivating these feelings based on the memory of them you hold, independent of the things you believe are necessary to give you that feeling.

Identify your desire:

Write down your dream goal/desired ideal from week one. Feel free to add to it if you have gained greater clarity or if your new sense of greater worthiness has given you permission to dream even bigger for your life. Be as clear as possible.

The Allowing Statement:

If you feel the self-limiting beliefs that you identified last week are coming up to sabotage your dreams, use this technique to lessen and remove your doubts and uncover the doubt in your desire/dream. Finding proof of its possibility helps remove doubt and restores faith. Affirmations don’t work if they trigger doubt and make you feel like you’re lying to yourself. A positive-worded affirmation can have a negative feeling vibration. The feeling is everything. Try various affirmations and "test" for harmonic resonance.

The "Reframe Your Doubts" Method:

Desire with doubt statement: I’d like to start a new career but I can’t at my age because I’m a mom and my family depends on me.

Challenging question: Is there anyone my age who is also a mom that has started a new career and been successful?

Honest answer: Yes, of course.

Follow-up question: If so, how many people in the world do you think have done this successfully?

Allowing statement: Right now there are likely thousands of moms my age worldwide who have started successful new careers and still care for and support their family. (Using third person creates less pressure and doubt).

Now do your own...What is your desire and what are the doubts you have?

Now, let's challenge your doubt:

1) Question:

2) Honest Answer:

3) Follow-up Question:

4) Allowing Statement:

Desire+worthiness+faith+clarity+action+momentum= MANIFESTATION

How to Re-word Your Affirmations/Desire Statements So They Feel Good and True To You:

Add: “I allow myself...”, “I decide...”, “I choose...”

Now plug your dream/goal/ideal into the formula:

I allow myself to have/be/do/experience___________________________

I decide to have/be/do/experience________________________________

**Read your desire statement, does it make you feel great, excited, hopeful, motivated? Do you feel excited as if it IS POSSIBLE, you CAN achieve it? If not, rework it so that you feel excited and your vibration is raised and not lowered by it. It will feel light when it is in alignment. 

Next, spend time thinking about your desire and watch for evidence of the universe’s motion to open doors for you to walk through. Show your commitment to the universe by giving your dreams attention. For example, the universe won’t write that book for you but it will quite possibly and miraculously arrange childcare, inspire your creativity, bring people into your life that will support the process, orchestrate a book deal... All beyond anything your limited mind could conceive of because we give so much power to circumstances rather than believing in and using the LAW in total faith.

Feel gratitude for it as if it’s already come to pass, really feel it having come to be as if your wish is already fulfilled. Feel the feelings you would have if it were already accomplished by using the power of your imagination. For example, how it would feel as you are signing copies of your book and smiling at each face that hands you their copy to autograph!! Feel it and visualized it and you will imagine it into being.

You are responsible for the why and what but not the how of your manifestation. You are responsible for the vibe you send out and to hold your vision of the goal already achieved. You are responsible to set the whole thing in motion with your intention, attention and action. You are responsible to recognize and receive what the universe sends in response to your request and follow the path as it’s laid out before you.

And remember ~ the universe desires your creation success even more than you do! It is conspiring in your favour! It is listening and delivering what your feelings and sense of worthiness are asking for! Manage your vibration and imagination and you will attune to that which you wish to attain!

Live life as if everything is rigged in your favour ~Rumi